04-21-2022, 02:24 PM
Thank for this Steve. Know the reason Why this has happened helps a lot to move on.
Nothing really get resolved, nor lessons learned, if the matter turns personal. Cola made it personal and any one of us would have rose to defend ourselves. He was obviously mistaken and lost the opportunity to maintain a good relationship (and learn something he didn't know) because he couldn't address the matter without placing it on such a personal level. Rule #1 in fair fighting is avoid "You" statements.
Nothing really get resolved, nor lessons learned, if the matter turns personal. Cola made it personal and any one of us would have rose to defend ourselves. He was obviously mistaken and lost the opportunity to maintain a good relationship (and learn something he didn't know) because he couldn't address the matter without placing it on such a personal level. Rule #1 in fair fighting is avoid "You" statements.